Navigating Urban Streets: My Self-Imposed Traffic Rules

Driving in a bustling city can be quite the challenge. The traffic, the honking, and the general rush can often lead to stress and frustration. I have a few self-imposed rules designed to make my driving experience smoother and more responsible. Here's a look at some of these rules and why they're important.

Fighting the Use of Emergency Warning Devices

As a former traffic cop, one of my self-imposed rules is to address any driver who uses an emergency warning device—such as a siren or flashing lights—when there is no actual emergency. These devices are meant for genuine emergencies and should not be used for any other reason. It’s important to raise awareness and maintain traffic safety by ensuring these devices are not misused.

Handling Traffic Light Delays Strategically

What if the car in front of me doesn’t move even when the light turns green? In such situations, I honk my horn, but with caution. While it's tempting to honk, there are road ragers and gang members who might see an opportunity to harass or even harm you. Therefore, I exercise a fair amount of patience and don't honk unless the situation becomes dire.

Responding to Tailgating

Another self-imposed rule involves how I handle tailgating. If someone is dangerously following me, I typically choose to slow down. This is done to ensure that the tailgating car has enough time to safely maintain a safe distance or to pass. Conversely, if I see someone driving slowly in front of me, I reserve the right to tail them a little bit—just to keep the traffic moving smoothly.

Dealing with Annoying Horn-beaters

Honking at neighboring cars can be quite common, especially at traffic lights. In such cases, I have a rule to take a measured approach. When someone honks at me, my immediate response is to move forward slowly, allowing the light to turn red again. This gives the other driver time to regain their composure without causing further congestion.

Interactive Neighborliness

When someone behind me honks at a green light, I take it as an opportunity to be a good neighbor. I pull my car to the side, roll down my window, and ask, 'Is everything okay?' Often, it’s just a misunderstanding or nervousness on the part of the other driver. By taking a moment to inquire, I often help diffuse the tension and encourage safer driving practices.

Safeguarding Against Aggressive Drivers

A particularly unique self-imposed rule is when someone behind me honks when the traffic light turns green. Instead of simply moving forward, I pretend my car has stalled and roll down my window. I shout, 'Is everything alright?' and then quickly leave the area just as the light is about to turn red. This causes the other driver to be left with a decision: either follow me recklessly on a red light and risk a ticket, or stay behind and stay legal. It’s a clever way to avoid skirmishes and keep the traffic flowing.

Conclusion and Tips for Safe Driving

Self-imposed traffic rules are a practical way to ensure safer and more responsible driving habits. By adopting these strategies, we can contribute to a healthier and more peaceful driving environment. Always be patient, courteous, and considerate to others on the road. Remember, every small action counts in making urban driving smoother and safer for all.