The Etiquette of Road Safety: Acknowledging Courteous Drivers

When using a pedestrian crossing, it is generally considered polite to raise a hand in thanks to the driver who stops for you. This small gesture acknowledges their courtesy and can promote positive interactions between pedestrians and drivers. However, the specific customs may vary by location, so it's always good to be aware of local practices.

The Importance of Crossing at Designated Crosswalks

It's crucial to follow the rules and cross at crosswalks. Jaywalking, or crossing the street in a place where it is not legally allowed, can be dangerous and may lead to serious accidents.

Sometimes, even when crossing legally and being extremely careful, a driver may stop for you. While appreciation is warranted, it's important to avoid putting others at risk. This is especially true for homeless individuals who time their crossings carefully to avoid attention and potential police involvement.

Observations and Anecdotes on Courteous Driving

In my experience, not all drivers appreciate such gestures. For example, I once attempted to express gratitude to a BMW driver for stopping, only to receive a frown. One might expect a car of such high quality to acknowledge courtesies, but this was not the case. Despite this, I still believe in acknowledging good behavior, even if the response is not always positive.

The Benefits of Acknowledgment

Offering a nod, wave, or verbal thanks is a courteous gesture that positively reinforces drivers' actions and encourages them to be kind to other pedestrians. As both a pedestrian and a cyclist, I follow this practice, waiting for my opportunity to cross rather than insisting on a right of way I do not have.

Conclusion

While it is important to recognize and appreciate the kindness of others, road safety should always be the top priority. Crossing at designated crosswalks, obeying traffic rules, and being vigilant are key aspects of maintaining safe road practices. Even retirees like myself, whose need to cross often is minimal, should follow these guidelines to ensure safety for all.