The Unfathomable Experience of Lacking Driving Skills in the Digital Age

Not being able to drive can be a rude awakening in a world where automobiles have become an integral part of everyday life. For those of us who have grown up without the need or the means to obtain a driver's license, the experience can be particularly idiosyncratic. In this article, we will explore the fascinating world of what it feels like to not know how to drive, the impact on personal mobility, and the advantages of embracing alternative modes of transportation.

Living without a Driver's License

Today, I don't have a driver's license because of my recent seizures. I rely on taxis, rides from friends, or public transportation to get around. Much of my day is spent answering questions on Quora, engaging in online activities, and sitting around the house. It's not the most exciting way to spend your time, but let's face it, sometimes life throws a curveball.

My Journey Without a Driver's License

I didn't get my driver's license until I was 38 this year. Throughout most of my life, I didn't have a strong motivation to obtain one. For instance, when I was 17, I had lessons and my instructor was confident enough to let me go for my test after just 7 hours of practice. However, I decided to go on holiday with friends to Spain instead, and shortly after, I moved to a university campus right next to the campus, which didn't necessitate driving a car.

Later, I started working in London, where public transportation was both convenient and time-saving. After moving to Tokyo, I relied on the Tokyo Metro and buses, which were considered exemplary and timely. Even in Hong Kong, where I had frequent and convenient public transport options, I rarely needed to drive.

The only time I seriously considered driving was when I spent a short stint in Silicon Valley, where the daily commute of 1.5 hours was a deterrent. I eventually moved closer to my workplace to reduce it to a 5-minute walk. Interestingly, driving was never an issue for me, and even now that I have a driver's license, I prefer to take public transportation as it is usually quicker and gives me time to engage in other activities like reading or napping.

Personal Insights and Reflections

Some individuals might find it somewhat handicapping not to know how to drive. It's a skill that is often taken for granted, particularly in American culture, where the ability to drive equates to individual freedom and independence. However, for those who embrace alternative means of transportation, it can be a comfortable and stress-free lifestyle. For instance, I don't ride motorbikes very often, but I know enough about them to learn quickly if necessary. Motorbikes are practical and cost-effective compared to cars, making them a viable alternative for many.

Another friend of mine also lacks a driver's license but has no plans to own a car, primarily due to the impracticality and high costs associated with car ownership. They find motorcycles to be a more suitable and economical alternative.

Culturally, not being able to drive can sometimes isolate you, making you feel like a charity case, regardless of your efforts to lead an independent life. For instance, I didn't get my driver's license until I was 27 and lacked the experience and confidence to drive safely. Even when I did get a license, it was mainly to move away from the East coast, where driving was absolutely necessary.

Initially, the absence of a driver's license was rarely an issue, but eventually, I realized I would need to drive if I moved to a different region. Having a license provided me with more freedom and flexibility, allowing me to explore different parts of the country, particularly the American West, where many jaw-dropping destinations are only accessible by car.

Conclusion

While not being able to drive can be a significant limitation, it's important to recognize that there are numerous advantages to embracing alternative modes of transportation. For many, the quality of life can be enhanced by reducing the reliance on automobiles, which are often seen as cumbersome, dangerous, and expensive. However, for those who do choose to drive, the ability to navigate the world in an automobile provides a level of freedom and convenience that is certainly worth exploring.

Freedom from the necessity of driving can be a significant quality of life issue, especially in a country like the United States where cars are an essential part of daily life. However, it would be nice to imagine a future where the options for transportation are more varied, giving individuals the ability to choose what suits their needs best. Until then, I continue to long for the day when I no longer need to drive, and I remain grateful for the convenience and comfort that alternative transportation methods offer.

Driving can be a wonderful experience, such as when cruising down an empty stretch of Nevada highway with the wind in your hair and the rhythm of Coltrane playing in your car. It's certainly a privilege that many take for granted, but it's also a responsibility that comes with its own set of challenges.